Dear Mom and Dad,
My life has drastically changed since the new decade has started. Now that it is the end of the year I feel that it is time to fill you on with what has happened. On January 3, 2010 I told Ian I was gay. In June I told Maddie I was gay. At ASB camp I told my group I was gay. In early December I told jessi I was gay. Last week I told Jamie that I was gay. Now it is time to tell you guys I am gay.
I am not one of those stereotypical gays that you see on television that wear sparkles and make-up. I am me, Brad Usselman. I will still be exactly the same because I don’t think that being gay should change anything about you besides who you want to spend the rest of your life with. I will always do sports and I am excited for the track season this year as well as being captain for cross country next year. I will never let being gay stop me from doing what I want to do. I still want to run cross country and track at a Division 1 college even though openly gay people are very rare to find in that competitive of a league.
I don’t know how the rest of the world will take this news, but I am rather sure most of my friends already know thanks to people telling each other. Instead of seeing this spread of gossip as a bad thing I see it as reassurance in letting me know that my friends are my friends and they will never abandon me for some stupid reason such as this. My sports teams may take a little longer to come along but as some people have said locker rooms may be homophobic but if you are a key person in winning then they will accept you, and yes I would say I am a key person in winning meets.
You ask why now? Well I am just done hiding who I truly am because of fear. Who will change people’s perceptions of gay people in sports for the younger generations if no one comes out and proves people wrong. I am ready to be me.
I love you guys and I know this would never affect anything between us. If anything I know it will strengthen our bond that we all share together. I don’t want you guys to worry about me in this process because I am a strong person and having amazing people all around me who will be by my side. I wrote this note to you instead of just telling you because I thought it would be awkward to bring up. So instead I did this and I am now waiting for your phone call at Maddie’s house